“That is Way Outside My Box.”
You know my first response when I hear someone say this is….” THERE IS NO BOX!”
I had a long conversation with someone the other day, and we had this very discussion about how hard it is to break into or create more money. He is right, it will always be hard because the life he is living inside of the box he created is the one that is his very own prison. Money is a currency (energetic and projected as real), and it is a direct reflection of your personal self-worth and your decisions in life.
That may be a tough pill to swallow for some, but it is the truth. When you begin to peel back the layers of your life and look at the events and decisions that led you to where you are at this very moment you begin to see how you got there.
The goal is to decide on what your end goal should be, even the Bible was started and written with the Beginning and Ending in mind. What do you choose for people to remember about you? Your kids? What is your roadmap to get there?
You have the ability to tithe forward or backwards, it doesn’t matter if it is tangible or energetic. Your tithing is a direct reflection of the mindset you are in. Most people think of tithing is about Religion, biblically tithing is about what you are doing for the greater good of mankind or taking away (creating Karma) (Malachi 3: 8-10, 2 Corinthians 9:6-8, Proverbs 3:9)
The box was created to keep us all in a construct fed to us by news, school, church, doctors, who all subscribe to the rules given to them by people that they never met or were able to ask questions. A tool to shame us into submission to live a life created for us instead of by us.
We are told to keep quiet until spoken to, and don’t ask questions.
We are told we don’t qualify for things, with no real understanding of why….
Or that we never measure up but measure up to who’s guidelines.
Ultimately, we were told to live in a construct we didn’t get a choice in or didn’t know we were allowed to ask questions about. Shamed into curling up and going back to our box…. where we have stayed.
I make people so angry by asking questions, but when something doesn’t make sense to me, I need pieces of the puzzle to help me understand where a rule or information came from that everyone is subscribing to just because they were told to believe it. It is so interesting because people do not like to be questioned, the shame is so real because when you ask questions people think of them as accusatory.
I really do not believe that a 9-5 job where we are chained to a desk and a computer is who we are as human beings. Unfortunately, it is what we have to do until people wake up and realize this. The glass ceiling is created in an office inside of the box given to us that we have lived inside of us because we were given a fear narrative to stay inside, or everything will be bad.
There is no ceiling, just like there is no box. It is just our own fears that were created by people who have no idea who we are.
Step outside of the fear and the wheel of life you have been living and the whole world opens.
If there is one thing that the Lockdowns showed everyone, is that when given the opportunity to create from our own space, we become more productive. Using both sides of our brains, instead of being fed with enough rules to keep us locked into left brain actions. We woke up to what was happening to use in environments created by the very people who want us to believe our box is real.
Wearing a suit isn’t necessary to do a good job, we just must step into who God created us to produce the outcome of what we know we can do, regardless of what anyone thinks or says.
Back to the box, what is this box we talk about? It is the program given to us about everything:
- What to wear
- Who our friends should be
- What church we should go to and why
- What grocery store to go to
- What doctor everyone using
- What our accent is based on who we are around
- What our belief systems are about everything in life
- Even social media shames us into thinking we are not good enough
Why do people stay in it? Fear!
Fear that someone might not agree with the choices you make.
Fear is a liar!!!!
God made us in his image, God isn’t in a box, God is not outside of you, God lives in YOU! And God didn’t make anyone with limitations based on what someone else creates for you.
How many people remember the project Flat Stanley, where you had to draw on a piece of paper a replica of yourself? You had to color the hair and skin and clothes just like it was you and cut it out. The next order of business was to send it as far as it could go with each person who had to put a note and you took a picture with it, then stuck it in the envelope and then send it to someone else and then finally it got back to you. They either had a note or took a picture with your Image of who you thought you were. I find it to be very ironic that it is flat and lifeless. Like the box created to keep you in a prison of life. You are not flat, you are not 2 Dimensional, you are a multi-dimensional being here to carry out a plan and a purpose for the greater good of mankind.
I often have friends ask me, “Why are you in school and why do you keep learning?”
I don’t subscribe to the box or labels of who I am based on what someone says I need to be at any age.
Age has NO limitations!
Who we are starts over every day. Who you were yesterday is in the past and the past is already gone.
Who you are meant to be is who you need to plan to be.
Nothing in life is by chance….And no one is coming to rescue you.
You asked for everything in your life good or bad.
The Bible tells us (not religion) that life and death is in the power of the tongue.
What are you telling yourself about who you are? Was that person given to you, or did you REALLY create it?
You have the power to create a life you love every single day. Regardless of the things thrown at you all day long. Your choices are either through your higher self or lower self.
Trust me when I say making decisions from your lower self is easy, it slides along, but the outcome makes life much more difficult.
If you don’t already, it is time to journal, write down the things you choose to let go of. Then write the lists of things you choose to accomplish in life. You must write it down and visualize it and give to God to handle and make happen for you, but also for you to tell your brain and create new pathways of opportunity.
Then talk to God about it all, be specific. BE SPECIFIC
And know you are making a choice, you can’t say this is what I want…The Bible tells us that we shall not want….God means it. What is your choice??? He literally has told you that you should not want.
Good or Bad everything in your life you have chosen whether you recognize it or not.
- Make a list of 10 things that you choose to accomplish over the next year.
- Out of those 10 things find Bible verses support your decision.
If you are, you are creating lack so ask yourself what are the things are I am doing to create lack? Now, get rid of them!
Clear the air and open your mind, body, soul, and spirit so that God can work with you and give you the life he wants for you. Most all the time, it is much much more than you can even imagine.
Remember, imagination is all about imaging. Vision boards are a great way to put a picture to the bucket list of life experiences you want now and forever.
Every night before going to sleep review what it is you choose, because not only are your letting go and letting God work for you, but you are also changing the brain patterns that help you create the life you choose.
Just remember… There is no box, only the belief that you have one.
Break through so you can live the life you deserve!
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-Angie
“There’s no better exercise for strengthening the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.” —Woman’s Home Companion (May 1954)
